Whether you’re gay, straight or bi, anal sex is something that can be enjoyed by all couples. It’s a more daring kind of sex that partners can bring into the bedroom. Although controversial for many cultures, anal sex is a common sexual activity for both heterosexual and homosexual couples.
Preparation for anal sex is important, and not in the form of foreplay. If you’re on the receiving end, it’s important to do a few things before getting started. Clearing your bowels is one of them. You should also wash your anus with some warm water and mild soap or use an enema.
Don’t forget to buy a lubricant, because the anus does not produce lubrication on its own. Anal sex without lube can cause serious pain and damage. Be sure to invest in some water based lubricants. Don’t use your partner’s semen as this could cause irritation inside the anus. If you don’t have lube on hand, don’t try to substitute it with lotion or any other moisturizer. This can break the condom if you’re using one (unless you know your partner’s sexual history, you should always wear a condom).
Having anal sex
Start slowly. Anal sex shouldn’t be painful, but it may be uncomfortable at first. If you’re experiencing pain, this is a sign that you are going too fast, or you may need more lubricant. To start off, slow rhythmic movements are best, and once your partner feels more comfortable, you can thrust faster and explore all the benefits that come from anal sex.
Don’t forget to communicate with your partner in a way that doesn’t kill the mood. If you’re not good at sex talk, questions like “Do you like how I feel inside of you?” or “Want me to go faster?” and “Can you take more?” will help you determine how much your partner can handle, without killing the mood.
Through anal sex, couples can achieve pleasure by stimulating the anal nerve endings. Orgasms can be achieved by a variety of ways, including indirect stimulation of the prostate in men, indirect stimulation of the clitoris in women and by other sensory nerves, like the neck and nipples.
Anal Sex in Pornography
Anal sex porn is a subgenre when the actors have anal sex at least once during the movie, often more so than any other type of sex. Scenes within anal sex porn glorify the butt, and the butt hole, making it a good genre to watch for people who have an ass fetish.
Over the past few years, anal sex experimentation has been on the rise among heterosexual couples. However, the porn industry isn’t increasing its anal production. Not many female performers like to do it, and the ones who do are often pressured, so the scene looks inauthentic. That being said, in America, searchers are looking for more anal videos. According to research gathered by a leading porn site, between 2009 and 2015, anal related searches increased by 120%.
For couples who are beginning their first foray into anal sex, it’s always advised not to follow the porn stars in anal sex porn scenes. Anal sex in pornography will see many female performers receiving rapid thrusts and deep penetration. For beginning couples, it’s important to thrust slowly with shallow penetrations.
Anal Sex Safety
Women should not have vaginal sex after anal sex without making sure that whatever was penetrated has been washed clean (unless you used a condom, in that case, just dispose of it). Remaining feces could transfer to the vagina and this could lead to urinary tract infections (UTI). Even though you cannot get pregnant from anal sex, you are still vulnerable to sexualy transmited diseases.
Anal sex has been declared a high risk sexual practice, according to the The World Health Organization (WHO), because of the vulnerability of the anus and rectum. The rectal tissues are extremely delicate and can be easily torn, allowing diseases to be easily transmitted. It is extremely important to wear a condom if you’re not sure of your partner’s sexual health.
Last Updated: Sep 06th 2016 14:33